It gives me clarity and offers weight to my decisions.
Does reflecting on that feeling suck? Yes, but thats A GOOD THING. Guess what though? That is exactly how I felt, like I came out of somewhere and no im not hiding. Thats like me saying “I came out to my parents” and someone being upset that gays dont “come out” they “inform”. Maybe someone somewhere feels guilty about “giving up a baby” less so then they would about “placing their baby” but thats not a good reason to pepper on some outrage. My god really? At what point are we just not allowed to use words anymore? I understand certain words or phrases have different connotations, but this one really doesn’t.